100 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples (Clean, Flirty and Long-Distance)
By Hugsy Team100 questions
Never have I ever works because confessions feel easier when everyone is making them. You learn the funny things, the slightly embarrassing things and, now and then, something you're glad you finally know.
Hold up ten fingers, put one down for every "I have", and ask for the story behind the best ones.
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Never have I ever waved back at someone who was actually waving at the person behind me.
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Clean and funny never have I ever
20 questions- 01Never have I ever waved back at someone who was actually waving at the person behind me.
- 02Never have I ever lip-synced through a whole song at a party because I didn't know the words.
- 03Never have I ever walked straight into a glass door.
- 04Never have I ever walked into a room, forgotten why, and walked straight back out.
- 05Never have I ever talked to a street dog as if it understood every word.
- 06Never have I ever used Google Maps to get somewhere I've been a hundred times.
- 07Never have I ever worn sunglasses indoors to look cool.
- 08Never have I ever imagined background music playing while I walk, like I'm in a movie.
- 09Never have I ever texted "almost there" while still in the shower.
- 10Never have I ever laughed along at a joke I didn't actually hear.
- 11Never have I ever given a name to a plant, a scooter or a pressure cooker.
- 12Never have I ever Googled myself.
- 13Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid someone.
- 14Never have I ever laughed so hard I spat out my drink.
- 15Never have I ever sleepwalked.
- 16Never have I ever stayed up the whole night for no good reason.
- 17Never have I ever met a celebrity.
- 18Never have I ever given someone a wrong number on purpose.
- 19Never have I ever said "you too" when a waiter told me to enjoy my meal.
- 20Never have I ever pretended to be asleep in the car so I wouldn't have to carry the bags in.
Food and everyday life
15 questions- 21Never have I ever eaten something off the floor using the five-second rule.
- 22Never have I ever eaten Maggi for dinner three nights in a row.
- 23Never have I ever eaten straight out of the pan to avoid washing a plate.
- 24Never have I ever kept a secret snack stash my partner doesn't know about.
- 25Never have I ever put an empty box back in the fridge.
- 26Never have I ever bought something online at 3am and regretted it by breakfast.
- 27Never have I ever hogged the whole blanket and denied it the next morning.
- 28Never have I ever "cleaned" by shoving everything into a cupboard before guests arrived.
- 29Never have I ever finished a dish my partner cooked badly, just to spare their feelings.
- 30Never have I ever used someone else's OTT password.
- 31Never have I ever spent money on something useless and called it an investment.
- 32Never have I ever secretly added extra chilli to someone else's food.
- 33Never have I ever finished a family pack of chips on my own.
- 34Never have I ever asked the pani puri bhaiya for one more sukha puri after paying.
- 35Never have I ever had chai so late at night that I couldn't sleep.
Relationship never have I ever
20 questions- 36Never have I ever said "I'm fine" when I really wasn't.
- 37Never have I ever rehearsed an argument in the shower.
- 38Never have I ever scrolled back to the very first messages between us and re-read them.
- 39Never have I ever kept a movie ticket, a bill or a wrapper from one of our dates.
- 40Never have I ever cried happy tears because of something my partner did.
- 41Never have I ever apologised just to end an argument.
- 42Never have I ever said "I love you" first.
- 43Never have I ever screenshotted my partner's message to show a friend.
- 44Never have I ever imagined what our kids would look like.
- 45Never have I ever used a pet name in public that made someone cringe.
- 46Never have I ever looked up an ex's profile after we started dating.
- 47Never have I ever forgotten an anniversary or a birthday and covered it up.
- 48Never have I ever planned a surprise that went completely wrong.
- 49Never have I ever been nervous enough to sweat before meeting a partner's parents.
- 50Never have I ever stayed up till sunrise just talking to a partner.
- 51Never have I ever given my partner the silent treatment.
- 52Never have I ever glanced at my partner's phone when it lit up.
- 53Never have I ever pretended to love a song just because my partner loves it.
- 54Never have I ever worn my partner's clothes without asking.
- 55Never have I ever known on our first date that there'd be a second.
Desi edition
15 questions- 56Never have I ever hidden a relationship from my parents.
- 57Never have I ever saved my partner's number under a fake name.
- 58Never have I ever said I was "at a friend's place" when I was on a date.
- 59Never have I ever been asked "so when are you getting married?" at someone else's wedding.
- 60Never have I ever skipped a family function to see my partner.
- 61Never have I ever eaten the prasad before the puja was over.
- 62Never have I ever been caught on a late-night call by my mum.
- 63Never have I ever bunked class or work to watch a cricket match.
- 64Never have I ever cried at the end of Kal Ho Naa Ho.
- 65Never have I ever forwarded a "good morning" flower image to the family group.
- 66Never have I ever been given marriage advice by a relative I barely know.
- 67Never have I ever danced at a sangeet I wasn't invited to.
- 68Never have I ever muted the family WhatsApp group.
- 69Never have I ever been compared to a cousin at a family dinner.
- 70Never have I ever done my Diwali cleaning by only cleaning my own room.
Flirty never have I ever (keep it sweet)
12 questions- 71Never have I ever sent a bold "I miss you" text late at night.
- 72Never have I ever worn something just because I knew my partner liked it.
- 73Never have I ever been told I'm a good kisser.
- 74Never have I ever picked up a new hobby to impress a crush.
- 75Never have I ever been caught staring at my crush.
- 76Never have I ever changed my plans just to be where my crush was.
- 77Never have I ever used a cheesy pickup line that actually worked.
- 78Never have I ever read a text that made me blush in public.
- 79Never have I ever kissed someone in the rain.
- 80Never have I ever slow danced in the kitchen.
- 81Never have I ever fallen for someone at first sight.
- 82Never have I ever had a dream about my partner and blushed telling them about it.
Long-distance edition
18 questions- 83Never have I ever taken an overnight bus just to see someone for a day.
- 84Never have I ever done long distance before this relationship.
- 85Never have I ever fallen asleep on a video call.
- 86Never have I ever stayed up past 2am because of a time difference.
- 87Never have I ever cried at an airport or railway station after saying bye.
- 88Never have I ever pressed play on the same movie at the same time from two different cities.
- 89Never have I ever sent a parcel of home food to my partner's city.
- 90Never have I ever taken a screenshot of a video call to keep as a photo.
- 91Never have I ever slept in my partner's T-shirt because I missed them.
- 92Never have I ever crossed off days on a calendar until the next visit.
- 93Never have I ever blamed a bad network to end a call early.
- 94Never have I ever felt jealous of my partner's flatmates for seeing them every day.
- 95Never have I ever sent a voice note longer than five minutes.
- 96Never have I ever celebrated a birthday over video call.
- 97Never have I ever kept a call on in silence while we both worked.
- 98Never have I ever checked someone's "last seen" more than once in an hour.
- 99Never have I ever changed my wallpaper to a photo of us right after saying bye.
- 100Never have I ever planned an entire trip together over chat at 1am.
How to use these
- Agree before you start that every confession stays between the two of you.
- Whoever puts a finger down owes the story, not just the fact.
- Play the relationship section with each other, not at a party.
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We read the lists couples already search for, kept the questions that work, and rewrote or replaced most of them in our own words. Some come from the 2,000+ prompts inside the Hugsy app. A person reviews every list before it goes live.
